As much as I hate the term urban pioneer to describe anyone who chooses to live in a depressed urban environment in some ways it is completely acceptable and almost the truth. There are countless people who have not set foot in Detroit in years, and do not know what this place is anymore. They do not know what it has become both good and bad, they only have memories of what it was in their heyday. Like the person who views high school as they high point of their life they live in the past, never once seeing the true present, only something of a distorted image that the city is not how it was so it must be worse. To them anyone who chooses to live in the city is a pioneer of not an unexplored environment but more of a place that is lost in a fog of memories.
I say all of these thing because a few days ago I had a conversation at a gay bar, SOHO specifically, in which I spoke with an elder of the gay community. This man now in his seventies has seen the world change in ways that are hard to imagine without having lived through the things he has. He lived in Detroit and spoke of the days of the 1950’s and 60’s when “they gay community was in its prime in Detroit, yeah we were all quite, and the police raided the bars, but the city was vibrant.” Now to him the city is nothing more than a burden that hangs on the neck of the suburbs. All of my pointing out facts and figures could never change his opinion, for life and events of his time have created it. He is a product of a broken environment of stark back and fourth infighting where no one wins and we all lose.
Our conversation brought others into the fray as well. A young man of twenty five who grew up in the city and left for greener pastures in the cities of the “new South” also chimed in on how there is nothing good about Detroit. For it seems that people from the city are blinded by notions and events of the past even if they themselves never directly lived through it.
Ultimately I gave up trying to change anyones mind. Everyone agreed that I was just too young and had not lived in the city long enough to know its true reality. Yet just as to them things always stay the same to me things are always in a state of change. Primary elections where yesterday in the city, and a new slate of people have been picked for city council. Detroiters for Council By Districts turned in 37,000 signatures today more than the 29,000 required to put a ward system up to vote in November. And today the sun shined just as bright as ever in my corner of Detroit.